Holding Your Ground…

What to Do When Someone Tries to Humiliate You in Public There is a particular kind of silence that follows a public insult. The room tilts. Heads turn, or pretend not to. Something hot moves up through your chest, and a part of you — older than language — wants to either disappear or strike... Continue Reading →

What Does Accountability Really Mean?

A letter to the young people who are watching — and worrying. I was in a supermarket not long ago, and there was a girl, maybe thirteen or fourteen, standing with her mom and dad. She was watching something on her phone — a video about immigration enforcement, people being grabbed off the street, families... Continue Reading →

Why Some People Stand Up While Others Step Back

The Psychology, Upbringing, Fear, and Human Story Behind Justice A protest forms on a city street. One person locks arms at the front line, chin up, ready to be arrested. Another watches from a doorway — sympathetic, nodding along, but motionless. A third reaches up and pulls the blinds. Same city. Same cause. Same afternoon.... Continue Reading →

Who Is Doing Your Thinking?

On Controlled Thinking, Critical Thinking, and the Five Emergencies There is a kind of quiet that only arrives late at night. The phone is dark. The day is finally spent. And the mind, set loose at last, begins to wander. Many people use that quiet to replay old arguments — to rehearse what they wish... Continue Reading →

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